Friday, October 9, 2009

three years later

It has been three years today since we learned our baby had passed. They say time heals all wounds. I wouldn't say our wound is healed, but time has made the pain easier to handle. I do believe all things happen for a reason. I've never been able, until now, to understand the reason for our loss. Now I know if it wasn't for our baby, we would not be adopting and in the midst of a wonderful journey. Though we grieve the loss of our biological child, we are thrilled to be awaiting the arrival of the child that is meant to be with us!

2 comments:

Jamie said...

thinking of you julie. i know these times aren't easy. september 24th was the 2 year mark for us for the same thing. my d&c was performed on oct. 2nd.....all these dates stick with us and we never forget. however....i'm so happy that this year is also bringing you joy at this time of the year. :) we need to cling to those things that are good and we do, however....we just never ever forget. ((hugs)) to you.

RM said...

I am so excited you have found a wonderful birth family! Been reading your blog for about a year now, and I'm so happy to read your good news.

Big hug!