Sunday, October 25, 2009

daddy's girl

I lost my Daddy yesterday. The one and only thing I wanted more than a child was to have him here as I became a Mom. As I type Greg is on his way from Afghanistan. I don't have much to say other than I lost my best friend.

20 comments:

Lori said...

Julie, I haven't had a chance to respond on Resolve, but I am so sorry for your loss. I can understand your wish that he could have seen you become a Mommy. I'm sure he would be so proud of the Mommy you will be soon...best wishes as you go throught his very difficult time...Lori (Lori-WA on Resolve)

Jamie said...

my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family julie ~ my heart goes out to the pain this loss has brought to your lives......i am so sorry....my words are just not enough.

Lynnette said...

I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Jessica said...

I'm so sorry for your tremendous loss - I just can't imagine your pain. I'll be praying for you and Greg and your family through this time. Again - I'm so very sorry for your loss.

ashley moon said...

I am so sorry. I lost mine October 5th and I feel much pain and regret that I could not make him a granddaddy because he wanted to be one so badly. I will pray for you.

Danielle said...

I'm am so sorry for your terrible loss Julie.

Misc Momma said...

I'm just a lurker, but I wanted to say that I'm so very sorry.

babyattheend said...

Julie,

I'm so sorry about your dad. Sending you lots of warmth.

hope548 said...

I came over from Jamie's blog. I'm so very sorry for the loss of your father. My husband lost his father many years ago and often I think of how much he would love our son if he had been around long enough for us to become parents through adoption. I wish you comfort, strength, and peace.

Rachel said...

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I've already said a prayer for you and will continue to do so.

areyoukiddingme said...

I'm so sorry you lost your best friend.

My dad died 18 years ago, and I can say that it doesn't get better, but it does get easier. My sympathies...

thegalwho said...

I'm so very sorry.

I lost my beloved Dad just over a year ago and I still am yet to come to terms with his passing over.

Aside from losing him in my life, the one thing that brings me to tears is the thought that I never got to make him a Grandfather and thats something he wanted more than anything.

big hugs

xxxx

Carrie27 said...

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I'm happy, though, that the military sent your husband home to be with your during this difficult time.

Many prayers for you and your family.

tireegal68 said...

Hi Julie, I am here from LFCA. I wanted to tell you how sorry I am about the death of your daddy. It is a truly devastating experience to go through and I know that feeling of wanting one's dad to see your little one and not getting to see that.
He sounds like a wonderful guy.
One of the ways I grieved my father, who died about 18 months ago, was really honoring him in as many ways as I could - photo collages, telling people about him, talking to my relatives and finding out stories about him that I had not heard before, keeping his picture with me all the time.
take good care. I hope your husband gets there soon:) (HUGS)

tireegal68 said...

Hi Julie, I am here from LFCA. I wanted to tell you how sorry I am about the death of your daddy. It is a truly devastating experience to go through and I know that feeling of wanting one's dad to see your little one and not getting to see that.
He sounds like a wonderful guy.
One of the ways I grieved my father, who died about 18 months ago, was really honoring him in as many ways as I could - photo collages, telling people about him, talking to my relatives and finding out stories about him that I had not heard before, keeping his picture with me all the time.
take good care. I hope your husband gets there soon:) (HUGS)

Hekateris said...

Julie, I'm here from LFCA too, and I am so sorry for your loss.

Hope Springs said...

I'm also here from LFCA, and I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Patti Rae said...

Julie, I know what you are feeling more then you know......Love you.

Melaine Thompson said...

Julie~I am so sorry, I can't imagine what you must be going through....know that he will be there with you when you become a mommy! Melaine (k's sister)

Baby Wanted said...

I just found your blog through the stirrup queens and this post brought me to tears. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how hard it is to lose your best friend. My dad is my best friend too and I also want him to see me as a mom, so my heart aches for you!

On a positive note, congrats on your beautiful Christmas Miracle!